Tuesday, May 27, 2014

5 Good Things - May 27, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) I met my new Seminar!


2)TB, JP, TM, SF, KM, TR, DR, & LP (also known as AP) made the Journalism table at the Freshman Activity Fair look amazing!

3) KJ & BK worked on the yearbook!

4) HR & CL answered my Seminar's questions articulately, honestly, and kindly. Wonderful.

5) LP (also known as AP) came in early to work on yearbook and then glided right into running to Walmart for me with nary a whimper. THANK you!

Monday, May 26, 2014

Go to the Grad Party

Go. You won't know if you were needed until you get there. Even then, you may never know.
Like so much of teaching, we act in faith, throwing our hearts into efforts that may or may not net a return. We stay late to help a kid polish a scholarship application, we use our prep time to help another finish a science portfolio, we work behind the scenes to get kids fed, shod, and into drug rehab. There are no guarantees any of our efforts will matter in the grand scheme of things, but I believe in the waterfall method of loving my students: pour it out there. And that means showing up at their grad parties.


I didn't always go to all the parties. Instead I tried to sort out which kids my presence mattered to most. But I've learned my perceptions aren't necessarily accurate.


A few years ago I drove 11 miles to a reception for a student I did not know well. She had been reserved all year, missed class for a range of health and personal issues. I'd nudged her through her (late) research paper and plied her with good books. I passed her the lemon-drop jar when she looked especially tired. But I did not think we had a strong connection.


The look on her face and the strength of her hug at her grad party made me wonder if I'd misjudged my impact. The thank-you note she sent afterwards verified this. She told me she had almost dropped out during that last complicated semester, and she credited me with keeping her afloat. Our post-high-school friendship blossomed from there. The following Christmas she sent me a new lemon-drop jar, stenciled with "Ms. Berryhill's Room ~ Where troubles melt like lemon drops." She still brings me a bag of the candies when she stops by to visit.


That same year I attended another party for a student I'll call Missy. I knew I'd mattered to Missy. I had advocated for her, counseled her, tutored her. One snowy day I left school during my prep period to pick her up because she was stranded in a small town 10 miles away without transportation. She was so hungover I had to stop the car twice on the way back to school to let her throw up. I'd gone to the wall for this kid. I deserved the graduation invite. Heck, I deserved the whole party.


When I arrived, Missy gave me a perfunctory hug and pointed me toward the cake. Just then her older sister spotted me. "YOU'RE Ms. Berryhill!" she beamed. Here it comes, I thought. This is where the family circles 'round to sing my praises, to thank me for saving their daughter/sister and CPRing her through her senior year. I prepared a simpering "It was nothing..." response, but the sister's excitement had nothing to do with my teaching: "I hear you have a house for rent!" she exclaimed.


Later I processed the experience, eating humble pie. It took a team of Clydesdales to get Missy across that graduation stage. I was just one of work horses. I don't regret pouring energy into flailing students, and I want to think I don't do it for personal glory. But my reaction to "not mattering" at Missy's party reminded me to keep my intentions in check.


So which party should I have attended? I now attend them all. Some teachers differentiate between the invites that are mailed and the ones left on our desks as an apparent afterthought. But sometimes the kids who can't pay for postage need me there the most. I've stopped trying to guess and instead clear my calendar and give myself over to three weekends of an all-cake diet. This year I was invited to 47. I missed six because of family obligations (my own daughter was graduating from college), but I made it to 41, delivering to each graduate a small jar of lemon drops.

Year-end Poem for Liz Huggins

Cake and Dirt
By Allison Berryhill

Some say the year will end in cake
Some say in dirt.
From what I’ve seen Liz Huggins bake
I hold with those who favor cake—
But if the year must close with hurt,
I think I know enough of pain
To say that for conclusion dirt—
Or mud, with rain,
Is just deserts.

--May 2012


Friday, May 23, 2014

5 Good Things - May 23, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) TR & I used our problem-solving skills 209 times! This is the result:
Thanks to DB for his guidance!

2) I had TWO cups of fabulous coffee from the new Keurig machine my 2015 editors gave me Wednesday! Pictured here: TR, KF, TB, me, MH, SF & KJ!


3) KJ & CJ finished the BLUE WALL! The bookshelves are back in place...SF is getting us a refurbished American flag! My students have done an amazing job of redecorating Room #408.

4) MH took pictures of the Drama class children's play! She lost the photos! She FOUND the photos!

5) HM, EH and I joined forces at the front door to wish our students godspeed as they embarked on summer vacation. EH used the megaphone: "Read good books!"

Monday, May 19, 2014

5 Good Things - May 19, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) MK, PS, TR, JE & RC demonstrated strong group discussion skills while talking with MA about ways to improve AHS. Thanks for joining us, MA. You were awesome too.

2) TB knew what I needed, just when I needed it. Thanks, TB.

3) KJ dispensed sage advice on needless drama and criticism of others.

4) MW stepped up to take pictures at parents' night.

5) Journalism lab buzzed with energy and productivity all day--plus JS visited!


Friday, May 16, 2014

5 Good Things - May 16, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) AS led the way! Great discussion with HM.

2) MO worked ALL DAY to perfect the final edition of Senior Spotlight!

3) RC applied IPC concepts to movies, experiences, and video games!

4) RW worked creatively to finish her Caesar story!

5) PIZZA 8th period!

TP & LP!

KM & RW (with the napkin in her nose)!
KM

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

5 Good Things - May 14

Today in Room #408...

1) AHS hired a new English teacher! Welcome MU!

2) KJ sanded the blue wall in preparation for the final coat!

3) KF & MS managed to connect the camera with LK!

4) MO has done a beautiful job with the year-end edition of Senior Spotlight.

5) MS learned to scan photos!

BONUS: LZ, MP, & SS won 1st place for editorial writing in the Iowa High School Press Association Class A newspaper contest!

Monday, May 12, 2014

5 Good Things - May 12, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) Pancakes! Thanks, PS for lugging in the groceries and skillets!

2) I got the flashdrive from KJ and gave it to SS who gave it to LS who tried to give it to SR. I got it back from LS and gave it to KJ who took it to the Atlantic News Telegraph! #HowWeRoll

3) HJ wrote another beautiful blog post. 

4) BMG did some serious pancake flippin'.

5) BF, SR, AW & ES wrote their "Much Ado" final papers!

Friday, May 9, 2014

5 Good Things: May 9, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) DC & JS led the way in making beautiful thank-you cards for the kindergarten students we interviewed yesterday.

2) JD used commendable leadership during our kindergarten interviews. #LeadingTheWay.

3) TR took a camera to the band contest tonight.

4) Shout out to LG for her efforts to make the Editors' Feature a success! (And for maintaining a 4.0 GPA).

5) LK for reminding me, every day, of my daughter PH. Rock on. You're awesome.


Thursday, May 8, 2014

5 Good Things - May 8, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1)  DW & TM were two of the 22 IPC students who interviewed Mrs. Fell's kindergarten students as an active listening opportunity. Wonderful hour!

2) AP took pictures (last minute) at Senior Night last night! #RockStar

3) I will remember JN by her smile.

4) SR made great headway on his yearbook spread.

5) DR stayed late to upload and sort journalism pics. 

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

5 Good Things - May 6, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) HW used her IPC skills and offered me "her basket" when I needed support. Thanks, Hailey.

2) LG dove in to solve the Editors' Feature problem! Made great headway.

3) CB, KW, & MS took green-screen pictures at the CCEOC.

4) TC, NC, NB, EM, TL & JN offered thoughtful over-reading on the backchannel for "Much Ado About Nothing" Act II, scene i, during 7th period Comp.

5) The second wall in our Journalism room makeover is taped and trimmed! Tune in tomorrow to watch our progress!
LK, RW & KF boost KM in front of what will soon be a blue wall!



Monday, May 5, 2014

5 Good Things - May 5, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) Our First Amendment is up!

2) SS found the missing Student Council picture!


3) HJ stepped up to take tennis pictures! #RockStar

4) MO is working like a maniac on the year-end edition of Senior Spotlight.

5) NB got 100% on his "Much Ado" quiz!

Friday, May 2, 2014

5 Good Things - May 2, 2014

Today in Room #408...

1) HW is a Gibberish Genius! (Interpersonal Communications class used this video to practice Mindful listening)!

2) DC was an amazing goalie in tonight's close game against Harlan.
3) JS & BW worked together beautifully in IPC today. Proud of you girls.
4) MO re-edited the Senior Spotlight after is was accidentally printed with pre-editing errors :-). Thanks, Miranda!
5) MW & MS are coordinating journalists! (Disclaimer: This picture was taken yesterday!)


Thursday, May 1, 2014

Why I Don't Demand Respect from my Students


Recently I've been sitting in on a number of teacher interviews. Invariably candidates will mention Respect (capital R) as a key element of their management style, teaching philosophy, or intended classroom atmosphere. It often sounds something like this:

"My classroom will be one of mutual respect. I expect the students to respect me and I'll respect them."

But too often this translates to "If students will just sit quietly and absorb whatever half-ass poorly planned lesson I put before them, I will not hate them as much."

I'm afraid some teachers think that Respect is the starting point--the good soil--and that happy teaching/learning will blossom from there. In truth, it is the reverse: a teacher's job is to establish the seedbed and tend the delicate shoots. Respect is a blossom, the end result that follows knowing your fertilizer: excellent planning, sensitive formative assessment, and responsiveness to the students who walk through your door.

So instead of starting with an expectation of Respect, consider this pre-Respect groundwork:

1) Plan like it's your job. (It is.) Plan each day's teaching to be engaging, meaningful, and interactive.
2) Teach like a rock star. From bell to bell, let your classroom be known as a place where students are not merely expected to learn, but guaranteed to learn.
3) Find something to love about every student in your charge. Yes, even that one.

Good soil doesn't just happen. Yet too often I see educators who skimp on the sweat factor that goes into raising a crop of trusting, hard-working students. Instead, teachers plan lightly, ineffectively, or not at all, then teach blindly, ignoring the myriad ways students will say "I don't get this" or "I'm dying of boredom."

Instead of beginning with an expectation of Respect, begin with an expectation for teacher preparedness. Good teaching--well-planned, highly engaging, responsive to what students need and know--builds trust. Respect is then an outgrowth of this fertility.

Teach well, day in and day out. Nurture the buds of Trust. The bloom of Respect will follow.